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This afternoon I visited Tuol Sleng, the torture prison set up in a former high school during the Khmer Rouge. Through an audio tour I learned about the Khmer Rouge\u2019s goals, methods, and finally their fall from power.  Similar to the concentration camps in Germany, the documentation of the people who were \u201cprocessed\u201d is abundant, despite much of it having been destroyed. Pictures, shackles, clothes, tiny cells, barbed wire to prevent suicide by jumping, iron beds, and paintings chronicle stories of crimes against humanity.  I am left aching for the pain of the specific people I\u2019ve seen and wondering at how a country lives with this? The cruelty we are willing to inflict upon one another in the right conditions is staggering. Cambodia is not alone in having such a legacy and psychology teaches us that we are all capable, in the right circumstances.  But how do we truly make sure it never happens again? In the tour, the audio guide urged us to remember, to tell the stories and look at the pictures and feel the horror so that we will not allow it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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I am reminded of the importance of words.  There is a poster in the 7th grade classroom where I work that reads \u201cWatch your thoughts, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your destiny.<\/em>\u201d  It matters how we talk about each other.  It matters if we allow people to become numbers, \u201ccockroaches\u201d, \u201cit\u201d, \u201cmonkeys\u201d, \u201crats\u201d, \u201cillegals\u201d, \u201cretards\u201d, etc. It\u2019s so small and simple, yet challenging to not just refuse and opt out, but directly refute language habits of those around us.  If we find it challenging to ask someone not to use a term, though, how much harder is it to ask stand up for the \u2018other\u2019 if the \u2018other\u2019 is being harmed? We are all responsible and we are all culpable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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For me, though, it\u2019s always the children.  When I first read stories of the Holocaust, then of Soviet prison camps, then Rwanda and here in Cambodia, there was and is something that shatters me when I learn of the abuse and murder of the children and babies.  Perhaps this is deep within each of us, a primal instinct to protect the young and vulnerable. Perhaps we know that where the vulnerable are abused, no one is safe. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

This afternoon I visited Tuol Sleng, the torture prison set up in a former high school during the Khmer Rouge. Through an audio tour I learned about the Khmer Rouge\u2019s goals, methods, and finally their fall from power.  Similar to the concentration camps in Germany, the documentation of the people who were \u201cprocessed\u201d is abundant,… <\/p>\n

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